Because it can get so energetic, it can also be quite tiring, so you can also be bent backwards over counters or a high table if extra help is needed. Whether it’s against your bedroom wall or somewhere more exciting, letting your partner pick you up requires a great deal of trust as he supports your body completely, and allows him to show off in a macho way. Sometimes the sexual energy is too much to be confined to a bed, and that’s where this position comes in. Here we list 5 of our favorite kinky sex positions that put him in control. A recent BDSM survey revealed that over 60% of women fantasize about being dominated sexually, and whether you actually want to get involved with BDSM or not, it can be satisfying to hand over complete control to your partner.